August 2020

MANAGING THE MANAGER is a book which shall prove to be very useful in managing relationships in day to day life.
Have you ever thought why are we becoming lonely on a planet full of people so much that many don’t even have a place to live respectfully. Even those who are in mansions and whose children are highly posted worldwide are often seen to be craving for a wish.
What has gone wrong?
We are ourselves responsible for solitude.
We did not handle the Nature’s most beautiful gift – The Relationship.
I would suggest to starve than to earn if time limits you from developing good rapport.
What is this! Your own son does not listen to you! That son on whom you spent all your savings. That son in developing whom you sacrificed all the opportunities of enjoyment. That son who is your own clone, who is supposed to be thinking in the same manner as you. What’s wrong? Where did we commit mistake?
If our own son is not listening to us then how can we expect our relatives or people from society to help us? If they are doing it either they are very good people who may not be considered to be beings of the present world or they may have some ulterior motive.
This booklet which is so small that is not even of 100 pages and hence can be read quickly gives an insight to us how to Manage people. By captioning it Managing the Manager it does not restrict its usefulness to an employee only who is working under a manager. In fact everyone is a manager. Don’t you see that even a sibling asserts by waiving his limbs if his TV show gets obstructed. He is a manager who by his actions makes the parents to adjust themselves. Likewise each and every person we meet has his own way of dealing / working. It is very difficult for any one to get his way changed. Hence in all walks of life we need to Manage people.
If one goes through this book, in the long run one may say that THE BOOK WAS WORTH READING.
Own it.
Read it.
Imbibe it.
Enjoy a Better Life.
Even after that, you will be leaving a legacy of kindness and understanding which will help your descendants. As people will be expecting them to be similar, even if they are not. Respect will garland your children too even if they are not up to the mark but they follow the Rule, ‘Keep mum’.
मूलतः अङ्ग्रेज़ी में लिखी गयी व्यवहार कुशलता की यह पुस्तक न केवल सरल शब्दों में लिखी गयी है जिसको स्कूल जाने वाले छोटे बच्चे भी पढ़ कर हमें अच्छाइयों से अवगत करा सकते हैं बल्कि जहाँ आवश्यकता समझी गयी है वहाँ पर प्रसंगों / शब्दों को अनूदित भी किया गया है। जरूरी अंशों के हिन्दी अनुवाद के साथ होने से इस सस्ते किताब को अङ्ग्रेज़ी न समझ सक्ने वाले भी ले कर देख सकते हैं। शायद उनके कुछ काम की हो।
इस संसार में बहुत तरह के लोग हैं। यदि हम खुद अपने बच्चे से अपने मन के वाजिव कामों को नहीं करवा सकते हैं तो खुद ही सोचिये कि दूसरों से कैसे करवा सकते हैं।
हम ही अपनी नादानियों के कारण अपनों को अपने से दूर कर देते हैं।
इस पुस्तक में कुछ सूत्र लिखे हैं जिनको अपनाने से आशा किया जा सकता है कि शायद हमारी व्यवहार कुशलता बढ़ जाये एवं हम अपने घर परिवार से भी ऊपर सम्पूर्ण संसार के कुटुंबी बन जाएँ। यदि ऐसा हुआ तो वह आपकी सबसे बड़ी जीत होगी। ॥ सीताराम॥